Big Girls Are NOT Better Than Smaller Girls!

Yuppp you read that title right. Today, I'm going outwith the confines of beauty and fashion and talking a little bit about something that affects me in a "Stop being a MF'ing idiot!" kind of way. Lolz. I'm also hormonal today so this might be an angry one.

I was watching youtube videos from a few people who I subscribe to, mainly Andrew Marlowe's recent videos who I've mentioned before on this blog. Andrew was talking about his love of curvy women and I had a little read through his comments. I was so frustrated reading a few of them.

One man wrote about his love of curvy women and some women wrote about how bigger girls are better than smaller women. I am a bigger girl and while I agree that bigger girls are amazing, I think ALL women are equally as fabulous.

Why do other women not get fed up of being categorized by their dress size? why does the amount of fat on our bodies determine what kind of people we are?

I know slim girls who are lovely, I know bigger girls who are lovely, I also know slim girls who are horrible, and I know bigger girls who are equally as horrible.  Being a big girl doesn't make you one way or another. It means you either have some junk in your trunk or you don't. It's that simple.

I don't think Men are solely to blame for categorizing us by our looks, I think us women are to blame for a lot of it. we need to stop pitting one us against each other.

I have a lot of respect for people like Andrew who use their presence online in a positive way to help curvy women realize that we are equally as beautiful as slim girls. Andrew loves women in general and regularly talks about how in awe of women he is. His preference is for curvy women and so spends a lot of his time talking about that, but it doesn't mean he thinks bigger girls are better than other girls. (Ps - Show andrew some love by clicking here)

I guess throughout all the rambling I'm doing right now, what I am trying to say is that just because a man makes a video about how fabulous big girls are, it doesn't mean that smaller girls are any less amazing and us women should stop making ourselves feel better by believing that one is better than another.

We are all women, we all should be together. Who run the world? GIRLS! Not just big girls.

Rant over!

H x